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1. It feels uncomfortable fingering myself

2. Any women on HRT long term?

3. Do women’s body fight off sickness better than men’s?

4. Do the gummies that are meant to make ur vaginal oh better actually work???

5. Advice for a woman moving in with a male roommate

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bug girls /bəɡ ɡɝːrlz/
noun

An alternative to “girl’s girls,” women who think about and care for bugs, eg. “We all know bout a girls girl, but where are my bug girls? 🐛 🪲 ?:Where are the women who love to look at and appreciate the little garden guys 🪱 and gals 🐞?”

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👀 Should I Google Review an Ex's "Business"?

👀 Meal planning for gym

👀 Where are we buying bras from?

👀 Insomnia help needed

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1. What to do when you feel like there’s Secret animosity in friendship

2. Is it okay that I cry too much ??

3. Due to budget cuts from D.C. my remote work job is being eliminated and I’m being moved into a position I don’t want

4. Feminist with guy friends in need of opinions here

5. Almost experienced fingering for the first time

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cookie /ˈko͝okē/
noun

A slang term for vagina, eg. “Then he reached further and touched my cookie.”

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👀 I’m a closeted queer Muslim girl and I’ve lately been having these thoughts I don’t want

👀 Has anyone responded “ewww” to men who are not behaving appropriately?

👀 Gardening for Mental Health 💜🌱

👀 Work crush? Am i delusional to think he likes me or not?

👀 mama’s boy boyfriend

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1. 30 before 30 ideas

2. I know we talk about being one big girls community but what do you do when girls are just...not nice?

3. Help! How can I deal with reoccurring haemorrhoids?

4. I am a massage therapist and I had a creepy encounter with a male client

5. Women with high T- what did you do to lower it

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hen do /ˈhen ˌduː/
noun

A UK term for a bachelorette party, eg. “My in-laws hen is coming up it's a whole day planned”

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👀 I feel like work has been consuming both of our individual time, and I feel like we might be growing apart.

👀 Any mom out there - what would you have like people to do / say / gift you

👀 is my friend male centered?

👀 Tech book recommendations

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2. dating tips for someone who has never dated

3. is it normal to get cramps after sex?

4. I’m 37 and married. I had a baby last year - my period came back a couple months ago and since then I have noticed myself developing a crush on a 27 yo co-worker.

5. Advice for leaving long running therapist

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coparenting /koʊˈpɛr.ən.tɪŋ/
verb

When parents who are typically separated or divorced still both share the responsibilities of raising a child, eg. “I’m dating someone who has little girl and things are getting serious between him and I. I’m nervous to meet her. He also still has her mom in the picture. (They co-parent) Any advice on how to approach this?”

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👀 Considering divorce. No big problems, but also no orgasms or joy...thoughts?

👀 Am I wrong for not wanting to support my cousin’s pregnancy

👀 How do I get my 11 year old and 14 year old stepchildren to be less bratty

👀 I fell in love with my roommate and worry about her husband

👀 Boyfriend follows only fans and watches pornography.

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2. Boyfriend of 3 years wants to help me buy a house

3. Books about deconstructing Christianity and patriarchy

4. Does anyone else ever have, like, a muscle spasm in their labia?

5. 18 and 31 age gap

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pelvic floor dysfunction /ˈpɛlvɪk flaʊər dɪsˈfʌŋkʃən/
noun phrase

An umbrella term for a number of conditions resulting from dysfunctioning pelvic floor muscles, such as pain, incontinence, or prolapse, eg. “I got my IC (Interstitial Cystitis) and PFD diagnosis 6 years ago and have felt like a normal person the last 3.”

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👀 Has anybody dealt with any internalized anti-Blackness?

👀 Are there any other moms out there struggling with the guilt of wanting to do things only for themselves?

👀 Sex dreams & how to know if I like girls

👀 My soon-to-be ex and I are sharing a 1br apartment for the rest of the year. AMA

👀 I’ve got serious cramps from endometriosis today, any home remedies recommendations would help a lot!

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2. Chin hair in my teens and 20s!

3. What TV series should I watch when I’m feeling unbearably single, so much that it hurts?

4. Is it okay to pull out on birth control

5. Distancing from misogynistic family

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stag and vixen lifestyle /stæɡ ænd vɪksən ˈlaɪfˌstaɪl/
noun phrase

A type of ethical nonmonogamy in which one partner (the stag) is monogomous, while the other (the vixen) has sexual relationships with other people eg. “My husband of 9 years has talked about the hotwife and stag/vixen lifestyle for a while.”

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👀 How do I tell my father that I feel like he is a better dad to his girlfriends child than myself

👀 i’m terrified of the world rn. what can i do

👀 Do you think interracial Couples work?

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2. Thoughts on Sabrina’s new cover?

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4. My boyfriend (male at birth) has history of mentioning how much he wishes he was a girl.

5. I'm in love with a fictional character

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cryptic pregnancy /ˈkrɪp.tɪk ˈprɛɡ.nən.si/
noun phrase

A pregnancy without typical pregnancy symptoms, resulting in the pregnant person to not realize they are pregnant until late into their pregnancy eg. “Cryptic pregnancy: I just found out I'm pregnant at 36 weeks had all my periods and life has been normal 😭”

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👀 Who in here got STD/STI from their partner of n>5 years?

👀 Outgrown my boyfriend

👀 Ways to not be attached in friendships?

👀 Married too fast. I need to be gayyyy.

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2. Do lazy people bug you the same way they bug me?

3. Friend has a crush on my fiancé. How to create space?

4. People skills as an introvert

5. What do you think of partners checking each other’s phones

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dyspareunia /dispəˈro͞onēə/
noun

painful intercourse, for either men or women eg. “I also find that a micro dose of testosterone gel helps with not only libido but dyspareunia.”

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👀 How do you live and view your life after leaving religion , what’s the meaning for life now ?

👀 I’m now 1 month into my new job and I still get anxious before every shift.

👀 Astral projection? Dream walking? Looking for advice from elder witches

👀 My breasts are changing shape and size?

👀 Does anyone else have trouble deciding their fitness/body goals?

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1. how to stop maladaptive dreaming?

2. I love my kids (5 &3) but I hate motherhood

3. Does unfollowing someone signify a point of no return for the other person?

4. I hate being a bride :)

5. My birth control has killed my sex drive

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cycle syncing /ˈsīkəl ˈsɪŋkɪŋ/
verb

adapting daily activities like diet, exercise, and other activity to align with the hormonal fluctuations that accompany different phases of the menstrual cycle, eg. “Incorporating cycle syncing into my life, but it’s soooo harrrrddddd.”

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👀 Post breakup glowup fail?

👀 Impregnant envy

👀 I have nobody to talk to about this. I don’t want to go to hell.

👀 What is the psychological and societal impact of pornography?

👀 My (32F) husband (29M) follows OnlyFans models who are all relatively young, like 19-21 year old girls.

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2. Do all lesbians or wlw like straps?

3. Do I need a lesson in gratitude, or am I justified?

4. I am so sick of living with shame.

5. Approaching Someone “Out of Your League”

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parasitic relationship /ˌperəˈsidik rəˈlāSHənˌSHip/
noun phrase

a relationship where one person benefits to the detriment of the other, eg. “You’re not seeing him honey, you’re sponsoring him. That’s a parasitic relationship and you deserve better.”

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👀 Sunscreens for oily skin

👀 Why should I keep my enemies close?

👀 I think I hate men but I'm heterosexual and want to be in a relationship. What do I do?

👀 I want to start an onlyfans and I’m not sure how to do it. Signing up is one thing but I’ve always overly modest and embarrassed when it comes to taking power in my sexuality.

👀 How can I support the Stella Creasy abortion rights amendment and other women’s rights?

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It’s inspired by those “who’s your real crush?” quizzes that I, personally, re-took 100 times until I landed on the celebrity crush (Chad Michael Murray) I really wanted. We also added a healthy dose of astrology, and layered in some general cosmic vibes for good measure. twin flame allows you to upload a picture of you and your crush, partner, or bff, and will send back a personalized love story and compatibility rating. Download now✨

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1. Expanding Sapphic Sex repertoire

2. So there is this research-based theory that rich men do not like girls with big boobs

3. Skin care products that upped the game for you that nobody is talking about??

4. Am I wrong for feeling uneasy about my boyfriend’s grief for his ex?

5. How would you bring the conversation to your family that you don’t want kids and are truly considering getting fallopian tubes removed?

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box breathing /bäks ˈbrēT͟HiNG/
noun phrase

a deep breathing technique that involves inhaling, holding, exhaling, and holding—each for a count of four, eg. “BREATHE deeply and intentionally— look up a technique called BOX BREATHING and just focus on that instead of worrying about sweat.”

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👀 What is the inside of a vagina meant to feel like?

👀 Spells to reclaim your energy and *maybe wish bad stuff* with your toxic ex's picture frames and hoodie that cheated on you

👀 I’m having a hard time staying 4B.

👀 What is the right way to manifest

👀 Best skin care products for my bf?

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It’s inspired by those “who’s your real crush?” quizzes that I, personally, re-took 100 times until I landed on the celebrity crush (Chad Michael Murray) I really wanted. We also added a healthy dose of astrology, and layered in some general cosmic vibes for good measure. twin flame allows you to upload a picture of you and your crush, partner, or bff, and will send back a personalized love story and compatibility rating. Download now✨

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1. any books that have a black girl as the main character or atleast centred around a black woman

2. Does anyone use Nair on their coochie??

3. SO keeping pictures of their ex

4. I’ve noticed an increase in small thread veins on my legs

5. How to stay body positive in a weight different relationship?

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polyglot /ˈpälēˌɡlät/
noun

a person who knows and can use several languages, generally four or more, eg. “i really want to be a polyglot by 25/26, i’m 20 and have started learning french and spanish with little to no advance.”

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👀 What are the best workouts for mental health?

👀 Married life isn’t ....great....

👀 I’m so tired of my parents babying my almost 35 year old half sister

👀 Cute movie recommendations to cry to??

👀 i can’t get wet

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1. My boss gets me gifts then throws me under the bus.

2. Getting over a fear of women?

3. ARE THEY CENSORING MENTIONING YOUR PERIOD ON TIKTOK??

4. Why is it fine to show off our bra strap as a part of the outfit but it is a fashion fail if we have VPL

5. Painful periods and crazy cycle fluctuations

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sapphic /ˈsafik/
adjective

anything related to sexual attraction between women, including those who are lesbian, bisexual, pansexual, omnisexual, aromantic, asexual, or queer, eg. “Hey, I'm Ray (they/them pronouns), and by the title, yes, I'm asexual and sapphic”

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👀 Gaining Weight and Dead Libido

👀 Trouble initiating sex

👀 Divorce: Psychologically Abusive Marriage

👀 How to deal with the state of the world right now?

👀 My boyfriends friends don’t like me

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1. The guy I’m talking to got his friend to text me to “test” my loyalty

2. Coming In Contact with the Fae, is this a bad idea?

3. what went wrong with my lesbian situationship?

4. Dirty talking chat gpt

5. He told me he was a chef , turns out he was stealing restaurant food and selling it from his house

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pheromone perfumes / ˈfɛrəˌmoʊn pərˈfjumz /
noun phrase

a type of perfume that works with your body's natural chemistry to create a unique scent, eg. “do those pheromone perfumes actually make guys crazy for you?”

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👀 I think I like the "idea" of a man, but not who men actually are.

👀 What were some of the first signs that made you realize you might be entering peri-menopause?

👀 How can I breakup with a guy who gave me the ick?!?

👀 I feel less woman because of my boobs

👀 Gift recommendations for parents

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2. Unbalanced Lady Parts...

3. Why tf did I get mono

4. It’s honestly exhausting how some people who’ve had a lot of surgeries feel the need to push their choices onto me.

5. Looking for a new craft-based hobby. What do you love doing?

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honorary son / ðə blʌd taɪd /
noun phrase

the role eldest daughters can find themselves defaulted to, eg. “I’m an ‘honorary son’ aka eldest daughter and I genuinely need the load taken off of me, I’m so tired, problem is I don’t know how to ask for help”

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👀 How to dress more "womanly" as a young adult without looking older?

👀 The ONE book you would force EVERYONE to read??

👀 Pulsing but not orgasming

👀 How do i get stray kittens to like me?

👀 Intersex. help!

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2. Does anyone have any resources or knowledge on how to manipulate men psychologically.

3. Does anyone here have kids and regret it?

4. Need advice on handling a messy client situation

5. Be honest with me, do you pee after masturbating?

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the blood tide / ðə blʌd taɪd /
noun phrase

A Diemer’s term for their period, eg. “I like to find increasingly funny and unhinged ways to refer to my period when I’m telling my husband it’s here Any ideas? We have: the semi monthly sacrifice (my cycle is irregular), the blood tide, the blood waterfall”

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👀 What's your weirdest hear me out?

👀 Forgiving my mother as a woman but despising her as a daughter

👀 I want to have my copper IUD removed, is the removal as painful as putting it in?

👀 My boyfriend doesn't want to get married anymore. How do I cope and accept it?

👀 Are g-strings trashy?

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2. Struggling with being proudly pro-choice

3. As a black girl myself, I get nervous and blushy when I talk to black men my age.

4. Tell me your feel good tv and movie recommendations.

5. I don't like playing with my only child, how do I encourage more independent play?

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red pins/ rɛd pɪnz/
noun phrase

Smaller, less harmful personality traits that aren’t exactly red flags, but still worth looking out for, eg. “believe that even the kindest people have what I call ‘red pins’ .. they’re not toxic red flags, just small traits or habits that need gentle awareness and growth.”

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👀 How do you ask a guy to go down on you?

👀 What are ways to remove black magic off of someone who’s been having issues with their career?

👀 My boyfriend is perfect in every way possible I just feel unsatisfied in our relationship

👀 Why is the only thing that helps to relieve/scratch a yeast infection sex?

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Hi!

Emma, Diem’s co-founder here.

I’m excited to let you know about a super cool new feature that’s now live in the Diem app. Introducing: Diem AI Lenses.

Diem AI Lenses enable you to search with a different perspective. You can now ask questions of leading experts and some of your fave creators all via Diem. Ask them anything and your search result will feature their opinions, content from across the internet, sources they personally trust. Cool, right? Over the news few weeks, we’ll be introducing you to our Lens creators as they go live in the app. Up next: celebrity trainer Kirsty Godso. Ask Kirsty here for advice about fitness, workout routines, and wellbeing!

What supplements do you take daily?

The supplement world is overwhelming and honestly quite exhausting to navigate. I prefer a “less is more” approach, personally, and try to only take things that my body isn't getting enough of or can't get from my daily food intake. These are the supplements I take daily and why:

• Women need to prioritise their protein intake to help support their hormones. My favorite protein that I use daily is a brand called Made Of that has a super clean grass fed NZ whey protein isolate. 25 grams of protein per scoop and no bad ingredients! I personally love just mixing it with water and making my famous protein water.

• Magnesium!! Let's face it, we're stressed and struggling to sleep and often not recovering well because of it. I am obsessed with Magnesium Breakthrough by Bioptimizers. It has 7 different types of magnesium in the formula and really is a game changer for a recharging sleep.

• Fatty15 is an essential fatty acid that most of us aren't getting enough of/any from our daily food intake. I swear I've noticed a difference in my skin and sleep since I started taking it two years ago!

"I'm consistent with my workouts but I'm not seeing any changes, help!"

The mystery of being a woman! Is it my hormones? My nutrition? My workouts? We've all been there when we've hit a roadblock with our results. There's no one straight answer for this as we're all unique, but there's often some common factors involved. More often than not, we might be consistent but we've become so routine in our training that we're actually not challenging our body enough or in the right way to get new results. Following a program that gradually increases in intensity and variety is important to help your body make change. If you think lifting weights in the gym isn't for you, you might actually be missing what your body needs.

Ask Kirsty here or by selecting her Lens when you ask a question on the Diem app!

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2. Anyone with knowledge on premature ovarian failure ?

3. Feeling guilty after abortion

4. Sooo sad with my major lol help me romanticize it

5. How do you Even explore your sexuality as an adult?

Word Of The Week

stim songs / ˈstɪm sɔŋz/
noun phrase

Songs that help someone regulate their emotions or deal with sensory overload, often for those diagnosed with Autism or ADHD, eg. “need to regulate to some new songs, suggest stim songs!!”

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👀 Bf drinks alcohol everyday and doesn’t want to have a conversation

👀 I’m getting a hysterectomy and am a little nervous, any advice?

👀 I’m bored, what are some productive inexpensive hobbies I can pick up

👀 What is an immediate deal breaker with a partner!?

👀 What’s your dark/secret confession?

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Hi!

Emma, Diem’s co-founder here.

I’m excited to let you know about a super cool new feature that’s now live in the Diem app. Introducing: Diem AI Lenses.

Diem AI Lenses enable you to search with a different perspective. You can now ask questions of leading experts and some of your fave creators all via Diem. Ask them anything and your search result will feature their opinions, content from across the internet, sources they personally trust. Cool, right? Over the news few weeks, we’ll be introducing you to our Lens creators as they go live in the app. Up next: Avni Barman from Gen She. Ask Avni here for advice about careers, entrepreneurship, and wealth creation!

What’s the first thing you ever searched on the internet?

free Webkinz secret codes (even though they never worked 😭)

What’s the best piece of advice you’ve ever received?

"Whoever cares the most wins"

What creator do you nominate to get their own Lens?

Piper Phillips

Tricks to stay motivated and consistent?

Put that cell phone on DND and create some stake!

What’s the best way to reach out and network with people?

Cold messages! Send 2x messages/day and watch your life completely change :)

Ask Avni here or by selecting her Lens when you ask a question on the Diem app!

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Here’s what else is trending on Diem…

1. Make sure you wash under your boobs

2. any good manifestation tips?

3. Period on birth control pills

4. How do you ask for money???

5. Is it a red flag if someone spends too much money on a first date?

Word Of The Week

D&C / di ænd si/
noun phrase

Stands for “dilation and cutting,” a procedure to remove tissue from inside of a uterus eg. “Having my first D&C in two days due to my Endo. What should I expect?”

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What else Diemers are talking about

👀 Song playing while you lost your virginity

👀 How do I look more wlw?

👀 Vaginal ring keeps slipping out? Idk what to do.

👀 Over 40 women, are there other ones out here?

👀 What to expect from deviated septum surgery??

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Hi!

Emma, Diem’s co-founder here.

I’m excited to let you know about a super cool new feature that’s now live in the Diem app. Introducing: Diem AI Lenses.

Diem AI Lenses enable you to search with a different perspective. You can now ask questions of leading experts and some of your fave creators all via Diem. Ask them anything and your search result will feature their opinions, content from across the internet, sources they personally trust. Cool, right? Over the news few weeks, we’ll be introducing you to our Lens creators as they go live in the app. Up first: Dini Mullaji, founder of the matchmaking app, Sitch. Ask Dini about dating, sex relationships, and fuckboys!

Do you remember the first thing you ever searched on the internet?

Daniel Radcliffe's address. He is and will always be my biggest crush. I unfortunately did not find it but maybe I should ask on Diem.

What’s the best piece of advice you’ve ever received?

The most important professional decision you ever make is who you pick as your life partner. Going to Harvard or Stanford or Mckinsey versus investment banking is all interchangeable, but your partner has the greatest impact on your career, mental health, and end of life satisfaction. (Sheryl Sandberg, 2017 at GSB View From the Top.) I promptly broke up with my boyfriend 2 hours later.

What person do you nominate to get their own Lens?

Fictional character: Samantha from Sex and the City because we all need to be reminded that we have the power, and dating is fun. Real-life person: Amal Clooney because no one has it all more than her (career, Clooney, clothes) and we need to know how.

How do you actually decide to set two people up?

The best set-ups are when there is clear alignment in values and long term goals of two people so they are moving in the same direction, and their personality traits and interests are complimentary so that you never get bored on the journey. But you have to really know the two people to have all this information (or you're getting set up by your matchmaker on Sitch - subtle plug hehe)

How do you know when something is really a dealbreaker?

People confuse icks (he chews in a weird way) with actual dealbreakers (he wants to move back to Minnesota but I will never leave New York). You should have five non-negotiables and if someone doesn't meet one of those, then it's really a reason to walk away. Everything else is fixable with the right person.

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Here’s what else is trending on Diem…

1. Ramadan : a sacred time ..... for men . A time of exhaustion for women

2. Is it ok to get married when you believe in divorce?

3. I don’t think couples therapy is working.

4. Who is interested in female longevity and ways to optimise your schedule based on your cycle? 👀

5. Has anyone dealt with having a parent with terminal cancer while in their twenties?

Word Of The Week

NDE / ɛn di i/
noun phrase

Acronym for “near-death experiences” eg. “Any NDE stories here? I am so curious? Did having one change your entire spiritual journey? And do you now have special gifts/abilities?”

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What else Diemers are talking about

👀 For as long as I can remember I have never liked the boyfriends of any of the women in my life. Starting, ofc with my mother.

👀 tips for bjs?

👀 Living in America - what's your tipping point to leave the country?

👀 How do I ease my perimenopause symptoms?

👀 Cozy (PC and iPhone) game recommendations?

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