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A question for somebody who achieved their dreams

When did you become ready to start your journey?

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Apr 22, 2025
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Diem co-founder Emma Bates unpacks one of last week’s most popular posts.

But first, here’s what else people are talking about on Diem:

  1. What boundaries to set with my mom about my son?

  2. My sister and her partner are living with my husband I.

  3. Married life isn’t ....great....

  4. I’m an “honorary son” aka eldest daughter and I genuinely need the load taken off of me

  5. Is it okay to have sex when you’re below 18?


This is a great question, which I’m sure many others relate to. In a world that is still obsessed with hustle culture and perfection, feeling like you need to be “ready” to start your journey is unfortunately all too common.

I actually don’t believe anyone is ever ready, even if on paper they appear to be. To many, I’m sure my public persona as the cofounder of Diem appears that I’m well on my way—but I can assure you, it rarely feels that way. Everyone feels a little messy, despite how many accreditations or dollars in their bank account they might have (if, of course, these are your measures of “success”).

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co-founder of Diem, co-host of Can I Call You? podcast and writer @Hearsay newsletter
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