Love Languages and Tears Down There

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Word Of The Week

love language / lʌv ˈlæŋɡwəʤ /
noun phrase

the way someone gives and experiences love, eg. “My boyfriend's main love language is definitely physical touch, but excessive physical contact makes me feel like I'm suffocating.”

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