Age Gaps and Butthole Bashfulness

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Diem Of The Week

Here’s what else is trending on Diem…

1. i may be pregnant at 16 and i’m very scared

2. Boyfriend of 3 years wants to help me buy a house

3. Books about deconstructing Christianity and patriarchy

4. Does anyone else ever have, like, a muscle spasm in their labia?

5. 18 and 31 age gap

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Word Of The Week

pelvic floor dysfunction /ˈpɛlvɪk flaʊər dɪsˈfʌŋkʃən/
noun phrase

An umbrella term for a number of conditions resulting from dysfunctioning pelvic floor muscles, such as pain, incontinence, or prolapse, eg. “I got my IC (Interstitial Cystitis) and PFD diagnosis 6 years ago and have felt like a normal person the last 3.”

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What else Diemers are talking about

👀 Has anybody dealt with any internalized anti-Blackness?

👀 Are there any other moms out there struggling with the guilt of wanting to do things only for themselves?

👀 Sex dreams & how to know if I like girls

👀 My soon-to-be ex and I are sharing a 1br apartment for the rest of the year. AMA

👀 I’ve got serious cramps from endometriosis today, any home remedies recommendations would help a lot!

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