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Are we at a feminist tipping point?
Some thoughts on the global gender divide.
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The Things We Don't Talk About
What if money *can* buy happiness?
A guest essay from Gretchen Rubin.
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Gretchen Rubin
How can I date men if I hate men?
On losing hope in the dating pool.
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Will my friends judge my 'personal brand'?
A guest column from Viktoriia Vasileva.
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Viktoriia Vasileva
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Why do we gossip about women's health?
The problem with Kate Middleton conspiracy theories.
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kate lindsay
How old do I look?
A TikTok trend is making women feel (even more) insecure about aging.
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kate lindsay
Am I wrong for not telling my partner my salary?
A guest post from The Purse's Lindsey Stanberry.
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Lindsey Stanberry
I'm worried my ex will leak my nudes. What can I do?
A lawyer shares advice.
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kate lindsay
i can’t always be there for my “crisis friend”
"How do you deal with your lifelong best friend who now lives a very different life than you? She’s in a constant state of crisis while I’m finally at a…
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Is it too late for me to change careers?
A guest column from 18 Olives cofounder Maya Kosoff 🫒
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maya kosoff
A love letter to the group chat 💕
Presenting our "Love Notes to Your Bestie" challenge!
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kate lindsay
Do tweens really need skincare?
On anti-aging and the loss of girlhood.
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I gained weight over the holidays. Will everything be okay?
A guest essay from Vogue's Emma Specter.
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emma specter
Is it cheating if he follows lots of Instagram models?
On digital cheating and online boundaries.
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The Things We Don't Talk About
The Things We Don't Talk About
The Things We Don't Talk About
Diem's weekly newsletter about technology, gender, and power, written by Diem’s co-founder, Emma Bates, and edited by Kate Lindsay.
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